Even at my biggest men always approached me and they weren't all just black or spanish, they were all types.When a women feels good about herself and is happy and confident, basically when she feels sexy, men can't help but notice, its like she puts out a scent of some kind. I think most men will be attracted to an outgoing larger sixed woman and a thinner girl who is a walflower ;) ~workout25 Tuesday, August 29, 2006, AM I dunno about the buff, health-conscious guys on PT, but I (female) go around town with a (female) friend who is 150# overweight, and guys just DROOL after her when they think no one sees them. I also went out for a while with a guy who was interested in much older women.
I am just in a normal weight range so I am not off limits.One of my best friends is probably about 50 pounds overweight and she gets a lot of attention from guys, especially black and Latin men.HOWEVER - I have been a size 14/XL and now I am a size 8-10/M and I get way more attention from men now. I don't think my face looks that different, and yes my slimmer figure is cuter, but its not like I have a "hot body" yet. So what my friends and I have concluded is simply - Men get sh*t for dating heavier women. Once you are not fat and you hang around younger men enough you will invariably hear jokes about drunken hookups with "fat chicks".At first i questioned his intentions because i recently lost 50 lbs.He never said anything to me before, only now did he finally decide to take a step forward.